Most people don’t want to talk to their doctor about such a personal topic. But keep in mind that urinary incontinence is a common medical problem, and that doctors are completely used to dealing with personal problems. Even if you feel shy, it is up to you to take the first step.
It may help to write down when you leak urine. Be sure to note what you were doing at the time, for example, sneezing, coughing, laughing, or sleeping. Take this log with you when you visit your doctor.